Having Conversations with Someone Who Is
Having Driving Problems
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What You Could Tell Someone Who Has Driving Problems
Start conversations with your
concern for the person’s overall
well-being and use “I” rather than
“you” messages: “I’m concerned
about your safety while driving
since your surgery … is there
anything I can do to help until you
are feeling better?” It is not good
to say “You’re no longer a safe
Explain the availability of other
transportation methods such as
family, friends, neighbors, taxis,
public and other transportation
services, as well as their benefits
(safer, less expensive and less
trouble than maintaining a car).
Try to let the person preserve his
or her self-respect. Listen
honestly to the person’s viewpoint
and reasoning and always show
Ask the person to consider having
a formal assessment done by an
occupational therapist, who is
also a trained driver rehabilitation
Be supportive of any changes the
driver has already made, such as
reducing the number of trips he or
she makes or limiting night
driving.
If a person with serious driving deficiencies does not respond to any of these efforts,
you may have to report the person to the state’s department of motor vehicles as a last
resort. Not all states maintain the confidentiality of those reporting. If it is important to
you that your report remains confidential, first check with your state’s motor vehicle
department or bureau for details.
Select your state on the on-line map to see if there is any state-specific information for
your state. You can use this section to make note of what you find for your state.