ACTIONABLE MOTIVATION ON DEMAND SELF-GUIDED WORKBOOK
The ability to have greater control over yourself and/or your environment so that
you can determine what you pursue.
Cooperation and Competition:
When you help others or work together to pursue a shared goal, you gain
satisfaction. Or, the excitement and satisfaction from putting your skills and
performance against others, using it as a yardstick to push your own progress.
So how can you keep these aspects refreshing? Well, it’s essential for you to level up
your game from time to time. You can’t stay at the same level forever. Otherwise, you’ll
start losing a sense of progress and this will leave your Forward Movement factor
unfulfilled. Again, this is why video games are so addicting--they use this very same
principle. Remember, Forward Movement is one of your Core motivation drivers, so
losing it is guaranteed to lead to demotivation.
To keep the aspects of Challenge and Control fresh, make sure you update your
objectives from time to time. And, when you set new ones, keep upping the ante. Better
still, map out a few objectives together and link them into a roadmap. Think of it like
your own video game where you traverse across a map, and with each level increasing
in difficulty.
Now let’s talk about Curiosity, which relates directly to learning. Our brains are
stimulated when we make new connections. Once you’ve stopped learning, anything
can start to become “routine” and get boring fast. So just like with the levelling up
challenges, make sure you map out a learning curve. A learning curve is basically the
knowledge and skills you are acquiring. They should be getting more advanced as you
improve.
As you increase the level, match your learning objectives to your roadmap, and make
what you learn applicable to your goal. Learning becomes more stimulating when you
apply it. Turn what you learn from intellectual knowledge into usable, everyday wisdom.
When it comes to Cooperation, people outside of yourself come into the picture, and
this requires extra effort to nurture.
This means that while improving yourself, also remember to also actively support and
help others get up to speed too. This will build trust and bonding.
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