Who can “serve” the documents
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The server must be 18 years of age or older and not
be anyone protected or restrained by the orders.
Temporary Emergency (Ex Parte) Orders
(nondomestic violence restraining orders)
By law, the court CANNOT grant a Restrained
Party’s request for temporary emergency orders to
change or end the restraining orders before the
noticed court hearing. However, the Restrained
Party may seek a court order for a shorter time
until the hearing or for a shorter time to serve the
request on the Protected Party.
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A request for temporary emergency orders must
involve an immediate danger or irreparable harm
to a party or children in the case, or an immediate
loss or damage to property.
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Ask your court’s family law facilitator or self-help
center to explain procedures for requesting
temporary emergency orders at your court, and
follow those procedures.
When personal service is required
A Restrained Party’s request to change or end
restraining orders must always be personally
served (hand-delivered) on the Protected Party,
unless the court allows another method.
Serve the Request for Order documents
The other party must be “served” with a:
You cannot serve the papers. The server can be a
friend, a relative who is not involved in your case,
a sheriff, or a professional process server. If serving
by mail, the server must live or work in the county
where the mailing took place.
The court granted temporary emergency (ex
parte orders) that start before the hearing date.
Note: Special procedures apply for personal
service on a Protected Party who has a
confidential address with the Secretary of
State’s Safe at Home program.
For more
information,
go to
www.sos.ca.gov/registries/
safe-home/applicants-and-participants/
program-policies/#child-custody.
When service by mail is permitted
A Protected Party’s Request for Order to
change or end the restraining orders in form
DV-130 may be served on the restrained party
by mail.
Requests by either party only to change
temporary orders in form DV-130 for child
custody or visitation (parenting time), support,
financial, or other orders (NOT protective
orders), may be served by mail.
General information about “service”
“Service” is the act of giving your legal papers to
all persons named as parties in the case so that they
know: what orders you are asking for; whether
temporary emergency orders were made before the
hearing; the date, time, and location of the hearing;
and how to respond to your request.
Requests made by either party only to change
“permanent” or “final” orders for child custody
and visitation (parenting time), or child support
in form DV-130 may be served by mail if an
Address Verification is included (see form
FL-334 at courts.ca.gov/documents/fl334.pdf
).
Service deadlines
Unless the court orders a different deadline:
Personal service (hand-delivery) must be completed
at least 16 court days before the hearing.
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Service by mail must be completed at least 16 court
days, PLUS five calendar days, before the hearing if
service is done within the state.
To address emergencies, courts can sometimes
grant a party’s request for temporary emergency
orders with or without notice to the other party
before the court hearing. The temporary orders last
until the day of the hearing.
NOTE: For questions about serving form FL-300,
talk with a lawyer or contact your Family Law
Facilitator or Self-Help Center http://www.courts.
ca.gov/1083.htm.
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Copy of the Request for Order and all the other
forms and attachments filed with the court clerk.
Copy of any temporary emergency orders granted.
Blank form FL-320, Responsive Declaration to
Request for Order
Blank form FL-150, Income and Expense
Declaration (if you served form FL-150 or
FL-155).
DV-400-INFO
How Do I Ask to Change or End a Domestic Violence
Restraining Order After Hearing?
New July 1, 2016
DV-400-INFO, Page 3 of 4
How Do I Ask to Change or End a Domestic
Violence Restraining Order After Hearing?