SOCIAL SKILLS TRAINING
Initial Individual Session
INDIVIDUAL SESSION:
OVERVIEW AND GOAL SETTING
In this group, we will use Social Skills Training (SST) to develop
social skills that can be used to achieve recovery oriented goals.
Agenda
Obtain informed consent for audiotaping
Please note that the individual session packet is intended as a
resource for you as a clinician. You are not expected to nor should
you read all the information to the veteran.
Overview
o Introduction of
your group leaders
o Discuss purpose of the
group; how it is different from
other groups
Discuss the format of
the group (including at home practice review,
skill introduction, role plays, feedback, assigning at home practice)
Discuss group expectations
Use Recovery Wheel handout to review components of recovery
Ask the veteran questions from the Goal Setting Brief Background
Interview if you do not already know the Veteran well.
Review broad quality of life domains
Use goal setting sheet to identify 1 recovery-related goal
Complete Social
Skills Training Veteran Outcome Survey: Initial
Questionnaire (See the “Guidelines for Administering the
Assessments” for directions.)
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Overview
Social Skills Training teaches people how they can better
communicate their feelings, thoughts, and needs to others. It also
teaches them how they can better respond to other people's feelings,
thoughts, and needs. Social skills help people to get what they want
more often and help them avoid doing things they don’t want to do.
Improving your social skills can help you achieve your recovery goals.
Social skills can help you communicate better with your friends,
relatives, and employers. These skills can help you talk to people you
are interested in dating. You can focus on skills that will allow you to
become more independent. Social skills training can help you
improve the skills you need to achieve almost any goal you choose.
In this meeting today, I would like to help you identify one personal
recovery goal to work on in the group.
Social Skills Training is different from other types of therapy groups.
Group members do not sit around and talk about their problems.
Instead, members spend group time trying out ways to actually solve
their problems. They do this by practicing different skills during the
group and then trying out these skills in real-life situations.
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Group Format
Group members practice a new skill through role playing, initially with
the group leaders and then with each other. Role playing is similar to
rehearsing for a play but is more relaxed and fun. Group members
first review how to break down each skill into a few easy steps. Next
they watch the group leaders role play the skill with each other. Role
playing is acting in a pretend situation. When members are feeling
comfortable, they get to role play the skill. The group leaders and
fellow group members will give feedback about what went well in the
role play, and will also give suggestions on how to make the role play
even better.
Group members will also be asked to do at home practice, whereby
they will practice the skill outside the group. At the beginning of each
session, group members will get the chance to talk about how the at
home practice went. Nobody is ever forced to do a role play or to do
at home practice if he or she does not feel comfortable.
Plan to participate actively. The more you participate, the more
you will get from the group. Feel free to ask questions and make
comments about the social skills you're learning; talk about the
program with other members of the group as well as the staff.
Discussing the material with others will help you improve the skills
you learn. It will also be very important to practice the skills you learn
at home.
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Group Rules
Group members must be willing to keep an open mind. They must be
willing to try new techniques designed to communicate with one
another. Group members will learn about new skills and discuss how
to use them in their lives. When they are ready, they will practice the
skills in group and in real-life situations.
There are
s
ix
rules
that
group members
are expected to
follow
during
the group
meetings.
Let’s
review
this
list
together.
1. Stay
on the group topic.
2. Only one person may speak at a time.
3. No name-calling or cursing.
4. No criticizing or making fun of each other.
5. No eating or drinking during group.
6. No cell phones on during the class.
Introduction to the Recovery Framework
Mental illnesses are conditions that affect thoughts, feelings, and
behavior. They can interfere with day to day functioning and can
cause significant changes in the quality of an individual's life. Mental
illnesses include a variety of conditions.
It is now recognized that mental illness does not have to lead to a
lifetime of disability. It is important to recognize that people are not
either healthy or ill. Rather, recovery is a process or journey that you
go on, and people may consider themselves in recovery while
continuing to have, and be affected by, mental illness.
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THE RECOVERY WHEEL
Here is a picture of something we call the recovery wheel. We are
going to use this picture to review all of the most important parts of
recovery. In this class, we will be practicing skills to help achieve
your recovery goals and live a more satisfying life.
Let’s go around the wheel and review each of these 6 important aspects of
recovery.
Hope: The belief that people can and do overcome obstacles in their lives.
Self-Respect: Learning to accept who you are and believing in yourself
again.
Empowerment: The sense that people have the authority to make
important decisions in their own lives.
Holistic: Recovery involves many aspects of a person’s life, including their
mind, body, spirit, and community.
Non-Linear: The lifelong road to recovery is not a straight line. The
journey sometimes takes us in unexpected directions. It involves
occasional setbacks and growing as a person.
Strengths: recovery focuses on building your unique strengths, coping
abilities, and skills to help you bounce back during hard times so that you
are better able to reach your life-goals.
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Optional Goal Setting Brief Background Interview
The Goal Setting Brief Background Interview is on page 15 of this
document. If you do not know the Veteran well, or if you think it would
be helpful to review some background information in the context of
goal setting, this Goal Setting Brief Background Interview can be a
helpful tool. Following completion of the Goal Setting Brief
Background Interview, you can then move onto working with the
veteran to set goals, which is the focus of the next 3 sections of this
Individual Session packet.
Discussing and Recording Goals
The goal for the SST group that the Veteran decides to set as well as
the steps to achieving the goal are recorded on the Goal Setting
Sheet (pages 17-18). The Veteran does not need to set a long-term
recovery goal for the group but some clinicians find it’s helpful to work
with the Veteran to define his or her long-term goal and then to work
back to a goal for the SST group. Some Veterans will not be ready to
set a goal and/or be able to discuss the steps to achieving the goal at
the initial interview. For these Veterans, it is important to schedule a
time to follow-up with the veteran to complete the goal setting
process. In helping the Veterans set initial goals for the SST group,
be sure to do your best to have the Veteran set a goal that is truly
important to the Veteran rather than something that his or her family
wants or the VA clinicians working with him would want for him, etc.
In the following sections you will find discussion of Quality of Life
Domains, and “SMART” [i.e., Specific, Manageable, Attainable,
Relevant, Time-Bound—see following “goal setting” section for more
information] goals. In interviewing the Veteran do your best to try to
classify the goal in a quality of life domain as well as to formulate the
goal as a “SMART goal.” Be sure to fill out a Goal Setting Sheet
(page 17) when interviewing the Veteran. You do not need to read to
the Veteran the information in this packet about SMART goals or any
of the examples of SMART goals, although excerpting part of the
Goal Setting” section below may be helpful in certain circumstances.
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The detailed information is there mainly to help you as the clinician to
understand how to formulate SMART goals.
The initial interview is an important tool for building rapport and a
therapeutic alliance with the Veteran. A main goal for this
interview as noted is also to guide the Veteran to define a
SMART goal for the SST group, to break this SMART goal down
into manageable steps, and to identify the Quality of Life Domain
that best classifies the goal. These are the items that you will
record on the Goal Setting Sheet (pages 17-18).
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Identify Quality of Life Domains
Recovery is about roles and goals. For the SST group, we would like
you to pick a short-term personal recovery goal that you would like to
achieve by the end of the SST group.
There are 4 Quality of Life Domains in which you may wish to choose
a recovery goal to accomplish during the timeframe of the Social
Skills Training Group:
1. Interpersonal relationships (for example, goals related to
improving relationships with family or friends or romantic
partners or goals related to making new friends or connecting
romantically with someone.)
2. Community Participation and Engagement (for example,
goals related to obtaining or improving paid work/volunteer
work/or school. This category also includes goals related to
increasing leisure activities or other community participation.)
3. Engagement in treatment services (This category includes
goals related to increasing attendance at appointments,
improving a relationship with a health or mental health care
provider, etc.)
4. Physical and Emotional Well-Being (This category includes
spiritual goals. Examples of goals of this type include working
toward a health goal such as increasing exercise or losing
weight, or maintaining an appropriate diet for a health
condition.)
Which
of these
d
omains
do
you
think might be most
important
to
you
right now?
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Goal Setting
Now, we are going to set a personal recovery goal. It is important that
you set a goal that is relevant to your life because the purpose of this
program is to help you improve your skills to reach your recovery
goals and improve your life.
One of the best ways to tackle problems and obstacles is through
goal-setting. Setting recovery goals means to identify specifically
what you want to do and what steps you are going to take to do it. By
reaching goals, people feel better about themselves, others, and their
lives.
The best goals are about what you want to do (like join a club; make
a friend), and are things that you really think you can start to do in the
next few months. Small steps lead to bigger goals.
Most
people
who
make steady
progress
in
their
recovery
report
that
it
is
important
to
set
goals
and work
toward them.
Having a direction in
life gives
us
all
a
sense of
purpose
and
meaning.
It
doesn’t
matter
so
much whether
the goals
are
large
or
small.
We
want
to set
goals
related
to the
areas
of
life that
you find most
important.
Now let
’s come up with one short term goal for the end of the SST
group. You are free to choose whatever goal YOU want to work on,
as long as it is important to you. The SST group is focused on
improving interpersonal skills and relationships. For this reason it
makes sense to set a goal to accomplish in this group that involves
your interactions with other people. Remember, this class is all about
learning skills to help you accomplish your recovery goal.
It
is
useful to
def
ine
your goal in
what
we call “SMART” terms
because doing
this
can make
the goal easier
to
focus
on
and
achieve.
“SMART”
goals
are
Specifi
c: The goal should be simply written and clearly define
what you want to do.
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Measurable: There should be specific concrete benchmarks
set that reflect progress toward the goal and it should be easy
to assess whether the goal was accomplished.
Achievable: The goal should be achievable; it should be a
challenge for you but defined so that you have a very good
chance of achieving the goal.
Relevant: This is a goal that is meaningful for you. It is a
worthwhile goal and the timing of the goal is appropriate.
Time-bound: Goals should be linked to a timeframe that
makes sense (e.g., in this case the length of the SST group you
are attending.)
We can also work to define some steps for achieving the goal that
can also help show you the way toward getting what you want.
Here are some examples of goals that can be set for the SST group.
You may notice that there are also “Long-term (meaningful) Goals”
included in these examples. It is often useful to consider what you
may want in the long-term for yourself and then work backwards to
find what goal may be important to focus on in the here and now.
You do not need to decide upon a Long-term (meaningful) goal for
the SST group. The Long-term goal question is included as a
reminder that it can be helpful to consider longer term goals when
coming up with a more short-term goal that one hopes to accomplish
in the timeframe of the of the SST group.
There are examples for goals in the 4 Quality of Life Domains
discussed above. Those 4 Quality of Life Domains are: 1.
Interpersonal relationships, 2. Community Participation and
Engagement, 3. Engagement in treatment services, and 4. Physical
and Emotional Well-Being.
Example for Improving Interpersonal Relationships:
Long-term
(M
eaningful)
Goal:
Have a girlfriend.
Goal for
end of
the
SST
group:
I w
ill start
a polite
conversation
with a
woman at
least
twice a week.
Step
s for achieving goal:
1. Attend SST group biweekly and practice skills taught in group,
including starting a conversation.
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2. Prepare a list of appropriate topics to use in conversation and
practice using these with a friend.
3. Prepare a list of safe and appropriate places at which to meet
women. Once the SST conversation skills module is
completed, go and try out the skills once a week.
4. Do best to not get discouraged by reminding myself that not
every conversation goes well. Review my efforts with my SST
group to identify positives and areas needing improvement.
5. Increase the frequency of starting conversations with women to
2x a week.
Example for Improving Community Participation:
Long-term (Meaningful) Goal: I will obtain a full-time paying job
Goal for end of the SST group: I will find a part-time volunteer job.
Steps for achieving goal:
1. Attend SST group biweekly and practice skills taught in group,
including asking for information.
2. Research and prepare a list of possible volunteer locations.
Decide which volunteer locations seem most promising.
3. Prepare a list of questions for a volunteer coordinator.
4. Contact volunteer coordinator and ask questions from list about
opportunities.
5. Prepare for volunteer interviews (if required) by practicing mock
interviews with case manager and then attend the interviews.
Example for Improving Engagement in Treatment Services
Long-term (Meaningful) Goal: I will be able to state my mental health
recovery plan and to report weekly behaviors to further mental health
recovery.
Goal for end of the SST group: I will attend and participate in
meetings with both my social worker and psychiatrist. I will be able to
voice in the meetings at least one personal goal related to mental
health recovery and ask for assistance from a professional in working
toward this goal. I will request follow-up appointments from both
professionals.
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Steps for achieving goal:
1. Attend SST group biweekly and practice skills taught in group,
including asking for help.
2. Read pamphlet on mental health recovery and make a list of
possible recovery goals.
3. Call to make an appointment with the social worker. Make a
realistic plan regarding what I wish to cover during the meeting.
including asking for assistance in working toward a recovery
goal. Attend meeting with the social worker and implement
plan. Request a follow-up appointment.
4. Call to make an appointment with psychiatrist. Make a realistic
plan regarding what I wish to cover during the meeting,
including asking for assistance in working toward a recovery
goal. Attend meeting with the psychiatrist and implement plan.
Request a follow-up appointment.
Example for Improving Physical and Emotional Wellbeing
Long-term (Meaningful Goal): I will have a Body Mass Index (BMI) in
the healthy range.
Goal for the SST group: I will establish healthy weight loss support
network by attending MOVE group 3X and meeting with work out
buddy 3x for exercise.
Steps for achieving goal:
1. Attend SST group biweekly and practice skills taught in group,
including asking for help.
2. I will contact the MOVE weight management group and
schedule an appointment.
3. I will ask questions in the MOVE group related to furthering my
goal.
4. I will try to identify a possible healthy work-out buddy or group
with whom I can walk 1X week. I will ask the person to take a
walk with him on multiple occasions.
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ADDITIONAL EXAMPLES OF POSSIBLE GOALS
Below are some other ex
amples of possible goals for the end of the
SST
group.
The
most
helpful
goal
you can
set
is
one that
is
a
“SMART” goal
for
YOU,
one
that
is
focused
on what
is
important
to
YOU
in terms
of
recovery.
The most
helpful
goal
will be one that
will
present
a bit
of
a challenge for
you but
one
that
you
will also
have
a
very
good chance
of
achieving by
the
end of
the SST
group.
Examples
of
other “end of
group”
goals
(You absolutely
do not
need
to pick
one of
these
goals.
These
are
just
included
as
examples
to
help in
the process
of
choosing
goals.
We
encourage
you to come
up with a
goal
tailored to
your individual recovery
journey.
)
Start
a volunteer job
Start
a
paying job
M
ove into a new apartment
Find a girlfriend
Apologize to 2 people I’ve hurt in my life
Do a leisure
activity
once a
week
involving other
people
Join and attend a book club once a month
Find a friend
to go to coffee with
once a week
Attend a church singles group 2X a month
Join
a recreational sports
team
(softball,
etc.)
Find a buddy to walk with 1x a week
Join
a running
group training
for
a
marathon
At least once per day actively work to make positive changes (e.g.,
improving listening skills, etc.) in conversations with my wife
Attend the
monthly
city
council
meeting
2X
and make
a statement
1x
on an
issue
I
care
about
Obtain
an
AA
sponsor
Join the church choir and practice weekly
Take an
art
class
and ask
for feedback
from
teacher 1x
a week
regarding
my
painting
Take grandchildren to the park 1x a week
Join
and participate
in a
mommy
and me class
Talk to a family member on the phone 1x a week
Talk
with social
worker
and psychiatrist
1x
a month
about
recovery
plan
Start a conversation with someone in board and care 1x a day
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Play pool or cards 1x a week with someone at my living situation
Join and participate weekly in the MOVE weight loss program
Join the PRRC and attend the writer’s group and yoga groups weekly
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GOAL SETTING BRIEF BACKGROUND INTERVIEW
((THIS SECTION PROVIDES AN OUTLINE FOR A BRIEF BACKGROUND
INTERVIEW IF YOU DO NOT ALREADY KNOW THE VETERAN WELL))
Name:
Date:
Education (highest level completed):
Current occupation:
Work history:
What activities are you involved in on a daily or weekly basis?
Are there any activities that you are currently not participating in but would like to?
Who are the people you spend most of your time with?
Are there people whom you do not currently spend time with but would like to?
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Date:
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GOAL SETTING SHEET
Nam
e
: ________________________________ _______________________
This form is to be completed by the Veteran and group leader with the group
leader acting as facilitator and recording secretary. Group Leader should retain
the original and the Veteran should be given a copy.
Is there a long-term recovery goal that you would like to start to work on as part of the
Social Skills Training Group? Identify a Long-term (Meaningful) Recovery Goal:
What would be a goal for the SST group that would help you work toward your recovery
goal? Identify a Goal for the SST Group:
Date Goal for the SST Grou p was set: ___________________
Which category best reflects the goal? Even if the goal may overlap categories just do
your best to select the most relevant category. Please circle the category.
1. Improving interpersonal relationships
2. Improving community participation
3. Improving engagement in treatment services
4. Improving physical and/or emotional well-being
Steps related to achieving the goal for end of SST group (place a
checkmark () after steps achieved):
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
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(It is okay to modify the steps based on changes in the strategy to achieve
the goal. Please just note the changes on this page or on the back of this
page. It is ideal for the Veteran to work on a single goal the entire SST
group. However, if the Veteran wants to change his or her goal this is
okay. An additional GOAL SETTING SHEET needs to be completed in
these cases.)
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