Marriage Ceremony
We are gathered today here in the presence of family and friends for the purpose
of uniting in marriage __________________and ___________________, and to
share in the joy of this memorable occasion.
Marriage symbolizes the intimate sharing of two lives. It is the development of a
balanced relationship that is continually growing and changing. Acceptance of
each other’s differences and appreciation of each other’s individuality creates an
atmosphere of understanding and trust where not only joys and successes but
also sorrows and disappointments can be shared.
Deep knowledge of each other’s feelings can only develop fully with patience,
genuine caring and respect. This understanding of each other can be the greatest
and most fulfilling experience of your lives.
No other human ties are more tender and no other vows more important than
those you now assume. If you both keep these vows, your home will be happy
and full of joy.
(Will you please join hands)
The contract of marriage is most solemn and is not to be taken into lightly, but
thoughtfully and seriously, and with a deep realization of its obligations and
responsibilities.
____________, do you take this person______________, to be your lawful wedded
spouse? Do you promise to love and comfort him/her, to honor him/her and keep
him/her in sickness and in health, in prosperity and adversity, and forsaking all
others, be faithful to him/her?
____________, do you take this person______________, to be your lawful wedded
spouse? Do you promise to love and comfort him/her, to honor him/her and keep
him/her in sickness and in health, in prosperity and adversity, and forsaking all
others, be faithful to him/her?
(Ask one party to repeat)
I,___________________, take thee________________, to be my lawful wedded
spouse, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for
richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish.
(Ask next party to repeat)
“I,__________________, take thee__________________, to be my lawful wedded
spouse, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for
richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish.”
(To first party)
Place and hold the ring on the ring finger of your partner’s left hand and repeat
after me.
“This ring I thee give, in token and pledge of my constant faith and enduring love.
With this ring I thee wed.”
(To second party)
Place and hold the ring on the ring finger of your partner’s left hand and repeat
after me.
“This ring I thee give, in token and pledge of my constant faith and enduring love.
With this ring I thee wed.”
Now that you have joined yourselves in solemn matrimony, may your strive all
your lives to meet this commitment with the same love and devotion that you now
possess. BY VIRTUE OF THE AUTHORITY VESTED IN ME AS DEPUTY
COMMISSIONER OF CIVIL MARRIAGES, I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU MARRIED
UNDER THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA.
You may seal your vows with a kiss.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION FOR PERSON PERFORMING
THE CEREMONY
You are responsible for the accuracy of information documented on this license.
THE MARRIAGE LICENSE WILL BE REJECTED FOR REGISTRATION IF IT
CONTAINS ERASURES, WHITEOUTS, STRIKEOVERS, RETRACING OF
INFORMATION, OR OTHER ALTERATIONS.
For imaging purposes, PLEASE USE BLACK OR BLUE INK ONLY.
Be sure that witness information is entered correctly, legibly and within the
designated box.
Please return the completed Marriage License for public marriages to the
Recorder’s Office, 701 Ocean St., Room 230, Santa Cruz, CA 95060 within ten (10)
days after the ceremony for registration. (Family Code §357).