Domestic Violence Information
Many myths surround domestic violence. Some believe it only happens to other
people. Unfortunately, it can happen to anyone. Our society - and often victims
- has traditionally overlooked, denied or excused the problem.
Domestic violence occurs when someone uses a pattern of physical, sexual
and/or emotionally abusive behaviors to maintain control over an intimate
partner or family member. Abusers use fear, guilt, shame and intimidation techniques to keep victims
under control. Abusers often escalate from verbal abuse and threats to physical violence. Physical
violence, or the threat of, is the most immediate danger but the long-term emotional and psychological
consequences are severe.
Knowing and acknowledging the warning signs and symptoms of domestic violence is the rst step.
No one should live in fear... Help is available!
Do you?
Feel afraid most of the time?
Avoid certain topics because you fear the
Feel you can’t do anything right for your
Believe you deserve to be hurt or
Wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?
Feel emotionally numb or helpless?
Does your partner?
Act excessively jealous and possessive?
Control where you go, what you do or how
you dress?
Keep you from seeing family and friends?
Limit your access to money, computer,
phone, or car?
Constantly check up on you?
Have a “scary” or unpredictable temper?
Hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?
Threaten to take your children away or
harm them?
Threaten to commit suicide if you leave?
Force you to have sex?
Destroy your belongings?
Humiliate or yell at you?
Criticize and put you down?
Embarrass you in front of your friends or
Ignore or dismiss your opinions/
Blame you for their own abusive behavior?
See you as property or a sex object?
For emergencies, call 911
Indicators of an abusive relationship:
What to do?
Call 911 immediately!
Call Crisis Hotline at 800-799-SAFE(7233)
Talk to a trusted friend or family member
(not related to the abuser).
Make and implement a plan for resolution!
You are not alone
It is NOT your fault
Help is available
Domestic violence is a CRIME!
(360) 473-5231
1025 Burwell Street
Community Resource Unit
Bremerton Police Department
Bremerton, WA 98337