Esther
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8 -PART COURSE
WITH SUCCESS COACH, AUTHOR
AND QUEEN MENTOR, GINA DEVEE
Audacity
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Welcome, QUEEN! 3
Welcome to Your Epic Life! 4
Becoming Queen 14
Transform Your Money Story 25
Communicating Like a Queen 38
The Archetypes Running the Show 44
How to be Certain 57
Being the Queen of Your Relationship 64
Your New Queen-Consciousness 70
Welcome to Queendom 74
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WELCOME, QUEEN!
The days of dismissing ourselves and
our desires are over. The world needs
women like us to step forward and lead
with benevolence, femininity, intention
and one-of-a-kind style.
Aer mastering the very same skills
provided in this course and learning
how to be a Queen, I have completely
transformed my business, lifestyle,
relationships, and money-story from
completely miserable, lonely and barely
scraping by to absolutely thriving in all
areas!
Since then, I have dedicated my career
to helping thousands of women around
the world do the same. From this place, my rst book, The Audacity to be Queen
and this companion course were born!
You might ask, “What does being a Queen even look like?” Diva? Devil Wears
Prada? Princess Diana? You’re saying “NO THANK YOU” to all of the above, and so
have I. Historically, Queens have gotten a bad rap, but throughout this course, I’m
here to set the royal record straight.
While diving deep into this course, you’ll discover that being Queen is about
becoming the best version of yourself. A Queen never denies her abilities or
her worth. She is condent. She doesn’t settle for crumbs or scrape by on the bare
minimum. She is certain in her desires, in touch with her intuition and maintains
rather high standards for her relationships. She is feminine and powerful.
In this course, you’ll discover your own Audacity to be Queen. It’s your turn
to claim your worth and get to know the best version of you. Say hello to
unlimited possibility, because you’re being called to greatness!
Only from the position of Queen can you fulll your purpose, and in this pivotal
moment, time is of the essence. The age of Queen is now.
All my love,
Gina DeVee
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MODULE 1
WELCOME TO YOUR EPIC LIFE!
Inside, you KNOW you’re meant for more, for that epic life. Think back to when
you were that little 7-year-old girl with big dreams, you knew that anything was
possible. And somewhere down the road, as you grew up and started adapting
to the limited mindset of society… things changed. You forgot. You forgot your
potential, your dreams and what you’re destined for!
So my dear, welcome to Module 1, where we will be reverting back to our
natural state of POSSIBILITY!
Are you ready to re-create your mindset? To design a whole new foundation for
your life? Please go watch the accompanying video while you go through the
following prompts and exercises below.
STEP 1: CREATE YOUR NEW BELIEF SYSTEM
In designing a new belief system, I’ve found that creating and repeating mottos or
mantras daily has been the #1 most benecial factor for rewiring my beliefs.
Let’s start with the motto that I share in the video:
“I AM MEANT FOR THE EPIC LIFE”
“I AM MEANT FOR THE EPIC LIFE”
“I AM MEANT FOR THE EPIC LIFE”
Repeat it until it feels real!
Now, let’s pause a moment and have you jot down a few additional
mottos for yourself:
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STEP 2: CREATE YOUR NEW BELIEF SYSTEM
How do you desire your life to look? Your business? Your relationships? If anything
were possible (which it is!), what would your lifestyle look like?
Be sure to go through the prayer, meditation, and visualization in this video before
moving on.
VISION CLARITY CHART
VISION FOR
MY EPIC LIFE:
VISION FOR
MY DREAMS:
VISION FOR MY
BUSINESS:
VISION FOR MY
LIFESTYLE:
VISION FOR MY
RELATIONSHIPS:
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STEP 3: SEE YOUR POWER
I want you to take a moment to see just how powerful you are at making a vision
your reality.
Think back to your 7-year-old self, what parts of your life have you manifested for
her that were once only a dream?
Life:
Career:
Lifestyle:
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Relationship:
Health:
Do you see how powerful you are?! All of these at one point were just visions,
yet YOU made them happen. The point here is that bringing your EPIC LIFE
and visions from the previous page to fruition doesn’t have to be hard, scary or
impossible… and my dear, you certainly are CAPABLE.
STEP 4: FOCUS IN
Now that you remember how capable you are… let’s take some of your top 2-3
visions from the categories below and start to couple it with a timeline.
Tip:
KEEP IT SIMPLE, REALISTIC AND TANGIBLE!
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90 DAY VISIONS
LIFESTYLE DREAMS BUSINESS DREAMS RELATIONSHIP
DREAMS
ACTION STEPS
Time to be your own #1 greatest advocate and remember that these dreams are
ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE!
It is now your responsibility to make them happen.
STEP 5: USE YOUR SUPERPOWERS
You have superpowers! Yes, I said it… superpowers! And when you learn how to
harness these powers and use them on a daily basis to support your dreams and
your vision… that’s how you tap into the miraculous realm, transcend time and
space and become a manifesting machine!
Tip:
LIVE IN THE FEMININE OF, “HOW CAN THIS
HAPPEN?”
You don’t have to know the exact, linear “HOW’S.” Ask Spirit/Source/
the Universe for guidance and support… you’re not in this alone!
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SUPERPOWER #1: SPIRITUAL CONNECTION
Spirituality has been part of my life since birth. It’s been an ongoing journey and
the relationship is always evolving. Having mentored thousands of women on
how to discover and deepen their own relationship with Spirit, I know exactly
how deeply personal this topic is.
As we begin, I want you to know, there is no right or wrong way to nurture your
relationship with God, the Universe, Source, or however you’re most comfortable
describing the Divine. Beginning your spiritual path is as easy as asking
Spirit for guidance. No matter your past experiences with religion or God, it’s
never too late to raise the question.
The very rst step in strengthening your connection with Spirit is to take
inventory and acknowledge where you’re currently at. Take a moment and
think of your relationship with “Spirit” as you would any other relationship with a
friend or partner.
What is the relationship like? Is it healthy? Loving? Scary? Condemning?
Supportive? Filled with trust and abundance or neglect?
Consider how you respond and behave when bad or good things “happen” to
you, when making decisions and weighing consequences, when feeling guilty or
proud, when feeling creative and energized, etc.
USE THE CHART BELOW TO DIG DEEP AND ASK YOURSELF:
MY SOURCE IS:
WORDS TO DESCRIBE “IT”:
HOW OFTEN WE COMMUNICATE:
HOW MUCH EFFORT DO I PUT INTO THIS
RELATIONSHIP:
ON A SCALE FROM 1-10 (10 BEING
THE HIGHEST), RATE YOUR CURRENT
RELATIONSHIP:
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When you’re connected, you don’t have to know all of the answers. You get to sit,
pray and ask for guidance. This is the unlimited realm! It is so abundant, loving
and ready to provide you with the answers.
SUPERPOWER #2: USING YOUR FEMININITY
Just like nature is meant to thrive with the masculine and feminine balance, so
are human beings. Regardless of gender, every person has both feminine
and masculine energy within them. Fundamentally, masculine energy is
about “giving” and feminine energy is about “receiving.” The integration of
both is essential to all life. Each energy is designed to enhance and support the
contribution of the other.
In my twenty years of doing this work, I’ve identied a number of characteristics
that relate to the polarities of feminine and masculine energies, laid out in the
following chart. Read the list from le to right and consider where in your life
you show up more masculine or feminine.
FEMININITY MASCULINITY
BEING DOING
FEELING THINKING
SPONTANEOUS PREDICTABLE
INTUITIVE LOGICAL
PLAYFUL RESULTS-ORIENTED
BEAUTIFUL FUNCTIONAL
INVISIBLE CONCRETE
LINEAR
DYNAMIC STURDY
VULNERABLE PROTECTIVE
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FEMININITY MASCULINITY
NURTURER PROVIDER
COMMUNITY (WE) INDIVIDUALITY (I)
AND OR
RECEIVING GIVING
For many of us, our social conditioning and work experiences have thrown our
energetic balance out of alignment. An overly masculinized work culture has
caused too many women to lose touch with their feminine side. This oen leads to
burnout and depression. However, a pendulum swing in the opposite direction has
equally devastating results for women who can’t get their dreams o the ground.
Thankfully, you’re here to develop the self-awareness to activate each
energy at the right time for YOU. This is how you bring out your inner Queen
and empower yourself to fulll your purpose!
Take a moment to ll out a few of the boxes below.
When do you find yourself relying on the masculine, and when are you
in your feminine?
How do you feel after spending a lot of time in your masculine energy?
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How about in your feminine energy? What are your favorite
expressions of femininity?
In what areas of your life do you need to activate your masculine
energy more?
In what areas of your life do you need to activate your feminine energy
more?
As exciting as her feminine power is, a Queen’s wisdom knows that she
also needs masculine energy. Without it, we Queens lack the money to
fund our dreams, the systems and structures to share our gis with others,
and the discipline to take consistent action on behalf of our vision. Keeping
the integration of feminine and masculine is how we can have both our
connection to the Divine and our ability to make an incredible impact in the
world.
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WELL DONE!
Thank you for joining me in Module 1 of the Audacity to be Queen. I hope you’re
feeling LIT UP and inspired by the unlimited possibilities that await you and your
epic life!
In this module, we covered...
Remembering that your epic life is possible
How to get started with embracing it
Mapping out your 90-day vision plan
The 5 steps in creating your epic life
Step 1: Create your new belief system
Step 2: Get clear on your vision
Step 3: See your power
Step 4: Focus in
Step 5: Use your superpowers
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MODULE 2
BECOMING QUEEN
Get ready to learn the story that changed EVERYTHING for me. This is where the
Queen archetype took life for me and it’s my great honor to share it with you.
Inspired by the legendary true story of Queen Esther of Persia, this soul-
awakening journey will turn you into your own unique version of Queen: the
feminine leader with the condence to be seen, known and even famous for her
gis and passions.
These lessons are timeless and demonstrate what true feminine leadership is all
about-- the blend between masculine and feminine energies. You’ll complete
this module knowing that every woman has a calling, people to serve, and a
clear personal vision.
LETS GET STARTED!
We’re traveling back in time, to the kingdom of ancient Persia at the height of its
opulence, arriving at the palace of the infamous King Xerxes.
“There were couches of gold and silver on a mosaic pavement of porphyry, marble,
mother‑of‑pearl, and other costly stones. The wine was served in goblets of gold,
each one dierent from the other, and the royal wine was abundant, in keeping
with the King’s liberality. By the King’s command, each guest was allowed to drink
with no restrictions, for the King instructed all the wine stewards to serve each
guest “what they wished.
This King liked a grand party. So much so that he held this one for seven days. On
the last day, while in “high spirits from wine,” Xerxes commanded that his wife be
brought to him so that he might display her beauty to his guests. His wife, Queen
Vashti, refused.
Furious, the King “burned with anger” and immediately had her banished from
the kingdom.
Tip:
BE SURE TO PULL UP VIDEO 2 WITHIN YOUR
MEMBERSHIP SITE AND FOLLOW ALONG IN
THIS WORKBOOK AS YOU WATCH.
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For Queens like us, this all too common self-destruction ends now. Identifying
where you’ve been self-sabotaging and playing small, backing out at the last
minute, and being led on detour aer detour will cast blazing daylight on the
Saboteur’s subtle antics. This is your moment to reclaim the truth that you’re in
charge and recondition your beliefs so that the big, bad S is permanently evicted
from your life.
LESSON 1: LET YOUR YES BE YES AND YOUR NO BE NO
Please take a moment to pause and ask yourself:
Where have you been saying YES when you’ve really been wanting to
say NO?
Where have you been saying NO but really wanting to say YES?
Meanwhile, it’s the h century B.C., and simultaneously as the King of Persia
was enjoying his great power, in nearby Israel, a war was underway that leaves a
young Jewish girl, named Esther, orphaned. She was then exiled to Persia, where
she and all the refugees were treated like second- class citizens. Fortunately, in
this new land, she was connected to her one last living relative, Mordecai, who
raised her as his own.
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LESSON 2: EVERY WOMAN HAS A STORY
This story of being orphaned isn’t uncommon, actually, we all have been
orphaned in one form or another. Esther’s story teaches us that all the challenges
in our lives have happened for us, not to us.
Consider this, how do you relate to Esther’s journey? When have YOU been
orphaned, exiled and taken out of your comfort zone? And what is your next step
on the path to Queenhood?
Reflect below as you take in this epic tale.
LESSON 3: SHE DIDN’T TAKE HERSELF OUT OF THE GAME
Torn from her new home, Esther was taken to the palace with the others for
“preparation.” As a Jewish, orphaned refugee, she could have gone into a state of
serious panic, fear, or future tripping, which would have ultimately taken her out
of the game. But not Esther, she remained poised.
Following Mordecai’s protective advice, she kept silent about her Jewish identity,
remaining calm and condent. The moment she arrived, the palace eunuch (and
in my opinion, the rst life coach), Hegai, immediately noticed her. It wasn’t only
Esther’s beauty but her “pleasing disposition” that caught his attention. Hegai
placed Esther in the best part of the harem for the rest of her stay.
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Where do you go emotionally or internally when you’re in fear or panic?
How have you let your emotions “take you out of the game?”
In what ways can you adopt a “pleasing disposition” during stressful
times in the future?
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LESSON 4: SHE REMAINED COACHABLE
When it was Esther’s turn to go before the King, she brought nothing with her
other than what Hegai recommended (she was clearly very coachable). And by
a miraculous hand of fate, Esther, the most unlikely candidate,was chosen. The
King proceeded to marry her in grand royal fashion, complete with a spectacular
parade and a beautiful banquet betting the new Queen of Persia.
Where are you allowing yourself to be coachable?
Where could you improve your ability to be coachable?
Where do you need a coach or mentor within your life right now?
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LESSON 5: ESTHER ACCEPTS HER CALLING
Awakening to the great truth in his words, Esther accepted the call on her life,
bravely replying, “I will go to the King, even though it is against the law. And if I
perish, I perish.
Every woman has a unique purpose to serve. No matter our professions, we are
all here to share our one-of-a-kind gis with those whose lives will be uplied,
enhanced and transformed by our work! Narrowing in on who exactly you’re
meant to serve and what your calling is, is an ongoing process that always brings
you closer to living that epic life you’re meant for.
WHO ARE YOUR
PEOPLE?
HOW ARE YOU
MEANT TO
CONNECT WITH
THEM?
HOW ARE YOU
MEANT TO LEAD
THEM?
WHAT IS YOUR
CALLING?
LESSON 6: USING HER SUPERPOWERS
Approaching this life-threatening feat the feminine way, Esther rst sought
spiritual guidance by praying and fasting. At the end of three days, she
discovered her answer on how to proceed.
Even while feeling emotional, she didn’t panic or act out of response to her
strong emotions, nor did she try to come up with all the answers herself. She was
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wise enough to call in assistance from the miraculous realm. THIS is the power of
using spirituality and femininity, being condent enough to refuel your strength
in collaboration with the Divine!
Below, write a prayer that you can use when you are feeling overly
emotional and fearful. Allow this prayer to help you release those fears
and bring you back to center with the poise and confidence of a Queen.
Bonus:
HERE I SHARE WITH YOU MORE
GUIDANCE OF EMPOWERING YOUR
PERSONAL STRENGTH AND POWER:
How To Get Through Dark Times
Unshakable Spiritual Confidence
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LESSON 7: SHE WAS VISIBLE & UNAPOLOGETIC ABOUT HER
TRUTH
Aer Esther’s three days of spiritual practice were complete, she had her
answer.
She dressed in her royal robes and went to stand before the King. The most
incredible part about this story was that any other woman would have been
terried, immediately running up to the King in full panic, blurting everything
out and apologizing. But not Esther, she was poised. She used her feminine
powers and guidance to remain calm, and unapologetically stated her truth
and her request.
Ultimately, the King had Haman killed for threatening Esther’s people and they
were saved due to Esther’s courage.
What are your top 3 fundamental life “truths” that you stand strong
in? AKA your “non-negotiables.” Listing your truths will keep you
focused on protecting them and not bending on them in the face of
challenge or adversity. List them below.
1.
2.
3.
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CLAIMING YOUR STORY
The Universe has been preparing you for something big. Every challenge you’ve
ever been through has led you to where you are right now! It’s time to release any
self-doubt in order to receive your purpose.
YOUR BIGGEST LIFE
CHALLENGES:
HOW HAVE THEY
PREPARED YOU?
HOW WILL YOU USE
THEM?
CLARITY ON YOUR CALLING
You know that you also have a purpose and that it is no less important than
Esther’s. Those deep-seated desires that have been within you all your life—the
ones that perhaps you’ve repressed or kept secret—are clues to your next Divine
Assignment. Explore below to create clarity.
What does your life look like when anything is possible? When there
are no consequences? Be specific.
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What does your career look like when you are sharing your highest
gifts and talents? How are you of service in a way that is unique to
you, your story and your desires? Be specific.
YOU’VE BEEN PREPARED FOR “SUCH A TIME AS
THIS!”
Thank you for joining me in Module 2 of the Audacity to be Queen. It’s my hope
that the iconic story of Queen Esther has inspired you just as much as it has
inspired me.
In this module, we covered...
The 7 lessons from Esther’s story that pertains to our lives today:
Letting our “yes be our yes and our no be our no”: Setting boundaries
that allow us to be honest in what we desire
Understanding our story and being condent on how each phase is
guiding us to our truest calling
Remaining poised and calm even when under stressful circumstances, as
not to “take ourselves out of the game” from overreacting
Allowing ourselves to be coachable and resourceful
Accepting our calling by not trying to hide it from others, or from
ourselves
Using our superpowers to claim the status of Queen
Being unapologetic about our truths
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MODULE 3
TRANSFORM YOUR MONEY STORY
Welcome to Module 3 all about your money story! It doesn’t matter if your dad
was a bus driver or an oil sheik, EVERYONE has a money story. While each story is
slightly dierent, there are quite a few common patterns that we will be revealing
in the following pages.
STEP 1: UNCOVER YOUR MONEY STORY
I grew up being taught that money was scarce. That you had to work really,
REALLY hard for it, stretch every dollar, spend wisely and give away anything
extra” to those who needed it more.
I didn’t realize how committed I was to living out this belief system. Since there
was only a limited amount of money out there and SO MANY people in need, who
was I to have money for anything more than a basic existence?
Ten years into my career, with a Master’s Degree and all, I was still completely
MYSTIFIED by money. How do you make money? Who deserves the money? Is it
spiritually “okay” to have money and if so, how much?
Money was elusive, invisible, hard to get, seemingly impossible at times. And the
only thing more frustrating and excruciating than not having it was the fact that I
had been working 75 hours a week for years, and still could barely get enough of
it to pay the bills.
Maybe like me, you grew up hearing that money was hard to come by and should
rarely be spent. Or maybe in your household cash was easy come, easy go, and
your family went through cycles of feast and famine.
Maybe you were told to NEVER get a credit card or maybe your mom had 12. Even
if you grew up with plenty of money, you might be surprised you’re still playing by
your parent’s rulebook when it comes to what you earn and spend, or not.
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Let’s dive into your current belief system so you can replace it with a
better one.
Seeing your relationship with money for what it truly is, gives you the perspective
and the power to make more protable choices.
If money were a person in your life, describe that relationship in terms
of how you relate to money—how it treats you, how you feel about it,
what you think about it, what makes you mad about it, what brings
you joy about it, etc.
What did your mother (or another relevant family member) do with her
money and what did she tell you about money? Recall any relevant
experiences, activities, perspectives, choices, rules, attitudes, stories,
complaints, fears, etc.
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What did your father (or another relevant family member) do with his
money and what did he tell you about money? Recall any relevant
experiences, activities, perspectives, choices, rules, attitudes, stories,
complaints, fears, etc.
ALL THE MONEY MONSTERS
(CHAPTER 14, ALL THE QUEENS ARE DOING IT,” PAGE 225-226)
THE MONEY SLAVE GIRL
Willing to work endlessly hard for the
basics, as if it is her only option.
THE SUGAR BABY
So used to being supported by others that
she hasn’t taken responsibility or given
herself permission to earn.
THE AVOIDANT PRINCESS
Afraid to look at her nances, she doesn’t
know how much she makes or what her
expenses are.
THE TRUST FUND BABY
Depending on her family’s money, feels
locked in with their values.
Bonus:
CHECK OUT SOME OF THE MONEY
DEMONS I EXPLORE IN THE AUDACITY
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ALL THE MONEY MONSTERS
(CHAPTER 14, ALL THE QUEENS ARE DOING IT,” PAGE 225-226)
THE DINOSAUR
Defers to men’s or experts’ permission on
how o earn, invest and spend money.
THE DIVA
Willing to work endlessly hard for the
basics, as if it is her only option.
THE MONEY SLAVE GIRL
Willing to work endlessly hard for the
basics, as if it is her only option.
THE MONEY SLAVE GIRL
Entitled, gets easily frustrated when fantasy
plans for making money fail.
THE VICTIM
Feels at the mercy of “outside forces,
including penalties, broken agreements
and bad investments.
THE HIGH-END ESCORT
Finds and stays in less-than-ideal jobs or
relationships for money or perks.
THE OVEREXTENDED
Feels vulnerable receiving and thus is
always overspending on others.
THE MARTYR
Must sacrice herself nancially in the
name of her cause or family.
THE AUTHORITARIAN DICTATOR
Lives by a rigid, punishing set of rules for
how to interact with money.
THE SABOTEUR
Afraid she won’t get what she wants, blows
up her credit or consistent employment.
STEP 2: LEARN THE TRUTH ABOUT MONEY
My battle with money robbed me of my freedom, quality of life, sense of self-
worth, condence and the ability to live my purpose. Not to mention the joyful
life experiences of traveling, shopping, dining and living in my dream home.
Maybe you’ve been there or maybe you’re there now, feeling challenged by what
society falsely teaches us in regards to money rules and beliefs. It’s no surprise
most of us wind up in a destructive or limiting relationship with it.
The beginning of my own money makeover was learning the truth about it and
how it worked. I was RELIEVED to discover a wildly dierent perspective from the
one I was raised with. This alternative perspective set me free.
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I learned that the most successful and wealthy people do not operate under
this “lack mentality” at ALL. They see the world according to a dierent set of
universal laws that prove everything you’ve been taught about money is FALSE…
Developing my “wealth consciousness” was a process of adopting a new belief
system, becoming conscious of the truth of abundance and accepting my own
right to wealth. I was determined to let go of all the old-fashioned rules and
beliefs that had been running the show for me for WAY TOO long. And it worked.
I started to attract opportunities way beyond my typical “pay grade.” Manifesting
money for a purpose became my way of life, and there has always been more
than enough ever since.
10 UNIVERSAL MONEY TRUTHS
It’s not necessary to work
overly hard for money
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It’s necessary to get clear
on your true desires
9
Having a big impact
requires big money
6
Money goes where
there is a purpose
8
Making big money isn’t
about being smarter or
more talented
7
Money isn’t just for
other people,” it’s
meant for you
5
There’s no lack of clients
who have money to
invest
3
You making more money
doesn’t mean there’s
less for someone else
2
Money is merely a tool to
fund your purpose and
your dreams
4
There’s no lack of
money in the world
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STEP 3: TRANSFORM YOUR BELIEFS & UPDATE YOUR
MONEY RULES
Money doesn’t grow on trees
Money is dirty
Money is evil
I am poor but at least
I’m a good person
Money is in short supply
Money goes out faster
than it comes in
Money only comes
from hard work
Rich people are greedy and
dishonest
Money is not spiritual
I do not deserve success
and money
Rich people are seldom
happy
I’m not good enough to make
money
I’m no better than my parents, so
I shouldn’t make more then they did
I cannot handle or manage money well
Making money is just too diicult
If I’m successful, my friends will be
jealous and stop liking me
The higher I go, the
harder I will fall
I prefer to dream small
so that I am not too
pressurized
I cannot do what I love
because it does not pay well
Everything I touch
is a disaster
Only dreamers think
they can get rich but I
am a realist
Miracles rarely or
never happen to me
I feel safe being poor. It is
dangerous to be rich
The more money I have, the more
problems I will have
It is impossible to have it all
COMMON CORE BELIEFS AROUND MONEY
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Which of these common core beliefs about money resonates with you
the most? List your top 10! (Feel free to add your own.)
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TRANSFORM YOUR MONEY BELIEFS
To get you making choices according to abundance and your truth, let’s release
more of your old beliefs. Use the table below to replace them with your new beliefs.
OLD BELIEF NEW BELIEF
Theres never enough Reading my wealth consciousness books daily
reminds me that there is always enough
Money always stresses me I have the business systems and structures in place
to allow me to feel stress-free about money
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Describe your new relationship with money. What is it like when you
and money are BFFS?
What new money rules will you live by?
STEP 4: CLAIM THE MONEY FOR YOUR PURPOSE AND MAKE
MANIFESTING YOUR WAY OF LIFE
The Course in Miracles says that miracles occur naturally. When miracles are
NOT occurring, that’s because something is terribly wrong. I feel the same way
about money. As women, we need to accept the realness, the truth, and the
profoundness of this reality – that if money is NOT coming in naturally, something
is wrong. We are created to live powerful, abundant lives not lacking in any way,
especially not nancially. Imagine all the possibilities that open up once you’re
not worrying about how to pay your bills and get by.
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MONTHLY DESIRES
How much does your dream life cost? Where would you live? How much would
your car cost? Transportation? Clothing budget? Hiring an assistant or team
member? Joining a co-working space? Ask for Divine guidance, spend some time
with your journal and get spiritually clear before lling out the chart below.
MONTHLY DESIRES
CATEGORY YOUR DESIRE COST
HOUSING
FOOD
DINING OUT
SHOPPING
LIFESTYLE
TRAVEL
FAMILY
GIVING
SUPPORT
SAVINGS
MONTHLY TOTAL:
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ESSENTIAL INVESTMENTS
Let’s take a look at some of the larger investments your purpose requires. If you want
to start a biz what would that start-up money be? If you want to hire a team member?
Take a trip? Put your kids in a better school? Ask for Divine guidance, spend some
time with your journal and get spiritually clear before lling out the chart below.
YEARLY DESIRES
CATEGORY YOUR DESIRE COST
TRAVEL
MENTORSHIP
LIFESTYLE UP-LEVEL
DOWN-PAYMENT
EDUCATION
FAMILY
BUSINESS
TEAM
GIFTS
YEARLY TOTAL:
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THE PURPOSE OF YOU BEING WEALTHY
Now let’s go deeper into what it means for you to manifest the money for your
desires. Consider what would open up as you become the woman living the life
you described in the charts above. How does this impact your friends, clients,
family, coworkers, etc?
How does being taken care of nancially free you up to live your purpose? Allow
yourself to feel the emotions—this is SUCH an important part of manifesting!
How do you see yourself in the world as you make a consistent monthly income
to live your dreams?
GOODBYE MONEY STORY!
Bravo! You have completed one of the most foundational modules for creating
your big life as a Queen--transforming your money story. Money has the
power to support us as we design a luxurious lifestyle propelled by being
of service to others and carrying out our dreams. Once our money story is
healed, we can release self-sabotaging habits that keep us from that bliss.
Congratulations on developing that clarity for yourself!
What did you discover that is blocking you from nancial freedom or career
bliss? What false beliefs about money did you become aware of? How do you see
yourself manifesting money to support your dreams going forward?
In this module, we covered…
Identifying our personalized “money story”: The money demons we relate to,
our relationship with money, and how we grew up viewing money.
The recognition that wealthy and successful people do not live from a place
of lack. Releasing all “common core beliefs” around money.
Unveiling “money truths” that show us that money is abundantly available to us
Claiming the money to live out our purpose and confronting what those
gures look like so that we can manifest our dream life
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MODULE 3 CLASS NOTES:
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MODULE 4
COMMUNICATING LIKE A QUEEN
In this module, I help break down one of the most diicult concepts in life
and business: communication. Communication with yourself, your loved ones
and within your business doesn’t have to be a mystery and you don’t have to fear
the perceived judgment of being a “bitch” when you desire to get your needs met.
HEAR FROM YOURSELF.
You have a voice. You have desires. How you communicate with yourself and
create the TIME TO HEAR FROM YOU is crucial!
STEP 1: PRIORITIZE ALONE TIME WITH YOURSELF DAILY.
Have at least 20 minutes in the morning that’s your “you time.” For me, I call this
my spiritual workout and it includes 5 minutes of reading, writing, journaling,
and movement. Just 5 minutes of each every day! THIS is how I connect with ME.
MY SPIRITUAL WORKOUT WILL BE….
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MY SCHEDULE WILL BE… Carve out the exact time needed and decide
when you’ll do it!
MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY
STEP 2: SET ALIGNED BOUNDARIES WITH CLARITY &
COMPASSION WHEN COMMUNICATING WITH OTHERS….
SET ALIGNED BOUNDARIES WITH CLARITY & COMPASSION
You know that time you shot your mouth o (I know, just pick one) and it ruined
that friendship? Or when you stayed silent (aka “being polite”), and later realized
that speaking up would have landed you that well-deserved promotion? And
you’ve been kicking yourself for both ever since? Queenly communication is
the cure of all that. Most of us have been taught to either stay silent or bulldoze
people with our brutal honesty.
There is another way that gets you what you desire and deserve, without feeling
guilty. Once you master this skill, your life will change forever.
First, you have to be clear on your truth. What matters to you? What will you
stand for? What boundaries have you failed to enforce? Where are you denying
your worth? Explore below.
What do you find yourself frequently saying YES to (when you really
want to say NO)? (Hint- we also covered this in Module 2!)
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What do you find yourself frequently saying NO to (when you really
want to say YES)?
STEP 3: SPEAK YOUR TRUTH WITH LOVE
Most of the communication mistakes I’ve made in life have come down to not
what I said, but how I said it. Honesty is a great virtue, however, when you’re
overwhelmed with fear-based emotions, your honest words may have a crude
edge that does more harm than good.
As you reconnect spiritually, speaking your truth with love will become second-
nature to you. While you’re on the path, allow yourself to take the time to tap
in before you say or write something that involves challenging emotions. Give
yourself permission to pray for guidance and meditate on the love that’s true for
you. Ask Spirit to bring you the words that will li up everyone involved and call
them to their highest selves.
Take a moment to pause and ask yourself, what are some of your
truths?
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STEP 4: ASSUME THE BEST OF YOURSELF & OTHERS
So oen we women take ourselves out of the game the second we open our
mouths. We start our requests and suggestions with phrases like, “Would you
mind if?” “You may not like this, but” “This may be a bad idea…” “I hope it’s
okay
As Queen, you do not have to apologize for your ideas, needs, and desires! To
serve at your highest level, access your masculinity and allow yourself to be
direct, precise and unapologetic. You deserve to take up space and be heard. Let
your words reect that, and you’ll nd that your voice is much more easily heard.
What are some of the ways you can create these win-win situations
when communicating?
STEP 5: DON’T BRAND YOURSELF “STRUGGLE QUEEN”
The way we speak about ourselves when we ask for help, talk to our friends or
even mull things over in our own minds is just as important as all of the above.
I train my clients to NEVER open up discussions with statements like, “I’m
struggling with this…” or “I’m confused about that” Constantly telling the
Universe that you’re struggling and confused makes you available for more of the
same. A more powerful way to ask questions is by leading with statements like,
“I’m curious about how I can make this better” or, “I’m wondering how I can
transform this,” or “I’m ready to get clear on this question…” It’s amazing how this
completely transforms your outlook! Make it a habit to see your challenges in this
positive light, and you’ll nd solutions and answers ow much more eortlessly.
You’ll never feel like you’re “struggling” again. Aer all, Queens don’t!
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Practice here. Write out the areas in your life that you feel you need
more guidance in and then write your opening statements to those
challenges. Keep these with you and read them often so that they are
on the tip of your tongue the next time you go to talk about them.
COMMUNICATION QUEEN!
I am so happy that you joined me for this module talking about all things
communication! I cannot wait for you to begin putting these tips into practice
and watching the power of your words transform your life, right before your very
eyes. Words and language are the most underrated possessions of personal
power than we can own- so own it!
In this module, we covered…
Taking the time to listen and communicate with ourselves, our desires, and
our truths.
Being clear on what is true to ourselves and establishing your boundaries;
letting your yes be yes and your no be no
Speaking our truth with love. Elevating conversation for both parties.
Letting your words be energetic magnets to the Universe and setting
ourselves up for success
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MODULE 5
THE ARCHETYPES
RUNNING THE SHOW
If unlimited possibilities, impact, and abundance are all there for you, then why
aren’t you living your life’s purpose FULLY? This week, you’re going to be letting
go of all the unconscious programming that’s been secretly holding you back all
this time. Ready?
HOW DOES UNCONSCIOUS PROGRAMMING WORK?
If this is new to you, let’s talk about the layers of the mind...
The conscious mind is where your focus and awareness resides. Sometimes,
your conscious mind directs your physical actions; whereas, at other times
your subconscious takes over your body and your conscious mind goes
elsewhere—like when you’re driving a car, and actually thinking about what
you’ll be making for dinner.
The subconscious mind is the layer beneath the conscious, where you store
readily-accessible memories like your phone number or how to scramble an
egg. It also absorbs information from your conscious mind and from your
senses, translating that into emotions, feelings, images, and energy.
Your unconscious mind is the deeper reservoir where your suppressed
memories and beliefs about the world are held, inuenced by the events of
your past. This space can be harder to get to, and harder to change.
HOW DO YOU UNDO YOUR UNCONSCIOUS
PROGRAMMING?
As humanity has become aware of these layers of the mind, we’ve tried a lot
of dierent ways to transform our deeper mental states. Psychotherapy, for
example, is focused on probing the patient’s unconscious, and getting them
to talk about their darkest, suppressed experiences. The idea being that if
people could become aware of why they behave in certain ways, perhaps they
could change. A newer wave of therapy is actually giving people methods or
practices with which to actively change their unconscious self for the better.
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This has always been around in spiritual circles and has found legs in the world
of personal development and transformational coaching. Part of my work as a
coach is to teach women to harness the power of the conscious mind to shape
the subconscious and unconscious. Our minds are extremely powerful, and by
living consciously we can inuence not only our internal worlds but the external
as well.
The key is to apply your conscious focus to what you truly desire: who you want
to be in the world, the positive impact you want to make and the life that will
allow you to reach your highest potential.
SAY GOODBYE TO LIFE ON AUTOPILOT!
Many people walk through life on autopilot, without actually thinking about
what’s going on in their own heads. They react to feelings, emotions, and events
in whatever ways are most familiar to them. The patterns that run in your
unconscious mind are your regular habits, impulse behaviors, and deep-seated
beliefs that can work to be changed.
If you’ve ever been heartbroken, disappointed, depressed, or stuck in a rut,
maybe you’ve experienced an inner monologue that sounds like: “I’m not good
enough, I’m not worthy of happiness. No one will ever love me. Success isn’t
possible for me. I’m nobody.” Some of these thoughts might be echoes of beliefs
held in your unconscious, piping up at any sign of disappointment, rejection, or
things not going your way.
These thoughts have tremendous power over you. They not only drain your
energy and ll you with painful emotions, they actually limit what is possible for
you to manifest in the real world! They trap you in a negative cycle, producing a
similar eect to whatever caused them in the rst place!
If you want to change your life, this is where you start. You don’t need to allow
negative ideas in your mind— they serve no one, least of all you! This is the
crux of conscious living, of self-mastery, and of creating your fullest life. It takes
mental eort to keep yourself aligned with a higher vibration—but the
good news is that the forces of the Universe are always available to help
you. Soon enough, staying positive will be second nature to you, and the world
around you will begin to change.
Let the transformation begin!
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STEP 1: WHAT ARCHETYPES HAVE BEEN COMING UP?
ARCHETYPES AT A GLANCE:
THE CORE BELIEFS CHART
THE QUEEN My life has a purpose, I have access to
all the resources necessary to fulll my
calling, and I always manifest my desires.
THE PRINCESS Life should be easy and I shouldn’t have
to put in much eort.
THE MARTYR I have to do everything myself, because
no one can do it as well as me.
THE SABOTEUR My dream is too good to be true, so I’ll
quit before I’m rejected.
LITTLE MISS PERFECT Making mistakes and upsetting others
means I’m not good enough.
THE DEFEATIST Other people have succeeded, therefore
theres no room for me.
THE AVOIDANT PRINCESS Managing adult responsibilities is too
much for me.
THE NAIVE PRINCESS One day, this situation/relationship will
get better.
THE GLADIATOR I have to grind, push and plow through to
succeed.
THE SWEET TALKER It’s important that people think I’m
“nice” for me to be safe in the world.
THE GHOST Other peoples’ desires are more
important than mine, so I’ll stay silent.
THE BITCH Being cruel is the only way to be heard
and respected.
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ARCHETYPES AT A GLANCE:
THE CORE BELIEFS CHART
THE PARANOID GANGSTER People generally have bad intentions so I
have to be vigilant.
THE ROLLER COASTER RIDER Yesterday I felt anything was possible,
today I’m completely defeated.
THE MONEY SLAVE GIRL I have to work really, really hard just to
scrape by and survive.
THE GAMBLER I can’t rely on money, so I might as well
enjoy everything I have today.
THE MONEY ABUSER Unexpected nancial hits make my
relationship with money “love-hate.
THE FRUGAL FANATIC To be safe I must be precisely budgeted
and strict with my money.
THE SECRET SPENDER I have the ability to honor my desires, but
I’m embarrassed to admit them.
THE PLEASURE WARDEN Pleasure is counterproductive, I have to
keep busy to prove my worth.
THE LONER Friends are distracting; I will succeed
faster if I isolate myself.
THE DICTATOR DIVA I must punish those around me for the
error of their ways.
THE VICTIM I have no choice but to endure my
circumstances.
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Which archetypes resonate the most with you?
How have you been showing up as this archetype?
How has it been holding you back in life?
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STEP 2: WHERE DID YOU LEARN THIS ARCHETYPE?
Few of us grew up in families where all the adults were fully living their purpose.
Mainstream thinking in the past was even more limited than it is today, and for
millennial, real constraints made it nearly impossible for women, people of color
and other marginalized groups to pursue their callings. Lucky for us, today is
not that day. However, history’s wounds run deep. It’s important for all of us to
take a look at how we may be carrying on and even reenacting our parents’ and
ancestors’ battles. Do we have low self-worth because our mother had an abusive
mother? Do we feel guilty living out our career as an artist, because our talented
father never had the option? Do we feel weird about self-promo on social media
because we’re afraid of being kicked out of the tribe and le to die, just as our
ancestors feared when they were disapproved of?
These are the kinds of insights and connections we all need to make if we’re
going to free ourselves of false beliefs, and FINALLY give ourselves permission to
live on purpose.
Time to center yourself and be honest in the spaces below...
What’s your mother’s story (or another important parent figure)? Did
she get to live out her purpose? Was she confident? Hard on herself?
A perfectionist? “Irresponsible”? What did she struggle with?
What did/does she expect most of you? What does she value?
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What stopped your mother from having her desires, going for it in her
career, and/or being truly happy and fulfilled?
What’s your father’s story (or another important parent figure)? Did he
get to live out his purpose? Was he confident? Strict? “Irresponsible”?
A pushover?
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What did he struggle with? What did/does he expect most of you?
What does he value?
What stopped your father from having his desires, going for it in his
career, and/or being truly happy and fulfilled? What traits and patterns
have you picked up from your mother, father and family members when
it comes to living out your purpose and going for your dreams?
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What beliefs and fears are stopping YOU from living your truth?
In what ways are you reenacting your parents’ and ancestors’ beliefs?
In other words, how do you see yourself self-sabotaging currently?
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STEP 3: TAKE RESPONSIBILITY & SURRENDER!
The dark-side of diving into your unconscious family programming is that you
might be tempted to start blaming them for everything. The spiritual truth of the
matter is that only you can be responsible for your life. You’re not here to keep
playing the role of victim, aer all. You’re here to be QUEEN! Taking responsibility
is how you take back your power. It’s not about anyone being at fault—not you,
nor the people who came before you.
Your ancestors aren’t forcing you to keep reenacting their stories. Your parents
were likely doing what they had been taught by their parents to do, or sharing
whatever they knew to be right, or not properly dealing with their own wounds.
Who are you forgiving?
What are you now free to take responsibility for in your life? What
Queenly situations are you free to create?
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STEP 4: SET UP A NEW ACCOUNTABILITY SYSTEM FOR YOUR
NEW ARCHETYPE, QUEEN
How will you succeed in letting go of the toxic archetype and step into
Queen?
Recognizing our toxic patterns is step one. Being willing to change them is step
two. But step three? That’s the one that yields the most hesitation, because it
means it’s actually time to take action and transform. Sometimes we become so
rooted in our own comfortable patterns that we resist changing, even when for
the better, because it makes us uncomfortable.
While discomfort may be the new norm at rst as you adjust, it will bring you
more deeply into your power as Queen and have you experiencing far less
struggle as you move forward.
In order to fully embrace your new archetype, it is essential to create
an accountability system to fall back on when you have second
thoughts.
Having a strong accountability system will keep you focused. Start with these
questions to get clear on what you are striving for.
What areas of your life are you looking to transform first? List these
areas by priority to you.
1.
2.
3.
What toxic archetype patterns are you looking to release that have
sabotaged your priorities listed above?
1.
2.
3.
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How will you replace these patterns from the position of Queen?
Develop a mantra and prayer to resort to when those former toxic
patterns come up. Recite daily to keep yourself accountable to your
vision as Queen and morph your mindset.
WELL ON THE WAY TO QUEENDOM!
Queens, I am so proud of you for doing this intimate work in order to transform
yourself into your truest power! By doing so you are committing to living your
dream life and not fearing it any longer. I am happy you are recognizing that as
Queen you are fully capable of rescuing yourself and do not need to remain
dependent on any person, place, or circumstance to elevate your life. The
choice is always yours.
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In this module, we covered…
Recognizing our conscious/subconscious thought patterns
Releasing limiting beliefs to empower our thoughts and actions
Identifying archetypes that keep us from being Queen
Family patterns that have transferred over into our current lives
The importance of accountability in order to transform
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MODULE 6
HOW TO BE CERTAIN
Now that you’re clear on your vision, your epic life and your big dreams, now’s the
time to develop the #1 muscle that will help you make it a reality.
Welcome to your lesson on cultivating CERTAINTY!
Queens, of course, have condence, but certainty is a whole ’nother realm of
power. This high- vibrational state of being can be likened to an unwavering faith;
it’s a feminine quality, to have a clear vision for what does not currently exist and
a deep knowing that in the spiritual realm it is already done.
The power of this rare mystical art is not of the intellect; it is of the Divine.
Certainty is the highest form of showing up for your dreams and your
purpose— which, as we’ve discussed, is a “double blessing. Cultivate
certainty and you’ll become the star of your show!
FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU MUST KNOW THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A
WANT
AND A
MUST
WANTING HAVING
WISHING KNOWING
HOPING BELIEVING
FANTASY CERTAINTY
Now think about it, how oen do you nd yourself using or feeling the words on
the LEFT side of the chart above versus the RIGHT side?
In all the terms on the le side, theres one common theme: fear. Fear that
something can’t or won’t happen.
Now, for the terms on the right side, the common theme is: knowing. Knowing
you can and will have/create or manifest whatever it is you’re referring to.
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YOU GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON!
Really wanting something but having underlying fear around it will not get you
there.
So, let’s take a moment and analyze some of the previous “wants” in your life:
WANTS FEARS AROUND IT HAS IT HAPPENED?
The opposite of procrastination is making a decision. The origin of the word
decision comes from the Latin word “to cut.” When you decide, you cut o any
form of backup plan. You’ve now created a new thought at a new vibration that
requires a new level of support. “Ask and it is given.” Spirit receives the royal
memo of your desire and now works on your behalf to bring to you all manner
of resources supporting the manifestation of your choice. This is how you turn
a “want” into a “must” and make your main dream or desire happen, with
certainty, no matter what.
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Now, what will you be turning into a MUST (with full certainty) and by when.
MUSTS
WHY YOU’RE
CERTAIN
BY WHEN WILL
IT HAPPEN
HOW IT CAN
HAPPEN
Unless we know in every ber of our beings that our dreams can and will be
brought to fruition and that we do have what it takes to achieve our goals, we’ll
nd ourselves perpetually wishing, wanting, procrastinating, and making excuses
to no avail. Certainty puts an end to any slouching, recoiling, apologizing, or
acting like you desire anything less. “Who, me? What will people say? Is this too
much? Can I dream that big?”
All of those fears, insecurities, and doubts get totally wiped out when you have
the unshakable condence that comes with being certain. It’s how you defy the
conventional wisdom to go with the ow” that is secretly keeping your life from
ever reaching a crescendo.
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CREATE NEW MANTRAS TO REPROGRAM
YOUR MIND
Your mind will give you what you’re programming it with. In going for these new
musts, you’ll want to adopt some new mantras or mottos to begin focusing on
your certainty.
Examples:
I see myself making 10k this month
I see myself calling in my soul mate.
I see myself losing 15 pounds.
I see myself hiring 3 new team members.
Your Turn:
CULTIVATING CERTAINTY
5 STEPS TO CREATE CERTAINTY THAT WERE EXEMPLIFIED
IN MY STORY:
1. Auto suggestions: To create certainty you rst need to replace all old
thoughts and beliefs with your new ones. This is about repetition. Repeat your
vision again and again until it becomes a rote belief.
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2. Get crystal clear on your vision: As we’ve talked about, the mind is a
very powerful tool! Therefore, it is important to have both your thoughts and
beliefs align in support of your vision. This includes navigating through your
fears, insecurities, and comfort zones that block you from reaching your vision.
Go there! Look into those worn out fears and make a plan as to how you will
conquer them if/when they resurface. Having a plan in place will empower
you to no longer shy away when challenges arise, but rather overcome them.
Being crystal clear on what you want will allow you to ght for it harder.
3. Visualize it until you feel every detail in your bones: It’s one thing
to state what you want, but to actually feel every single detail in your bones-
that’s a new level of visualization. Tap into that. Write it out. What are the
ne details? Sometimes when we are living from fear or lack, and we aren’t
fully committed to our vision, we don’t dream up the ne details because
subconsciously we don’t believe it will happen for us, so why bother? Enough
of that, Queen! Time to dream it, taste it, feel it, believe it. What does your
vision look like? Where are you living? What are you wearing? Who do you
communicate with daily? What foods are you consuming? Who is your work
serving? What does your bank account look like? Ask those questions.
4. Ask the Universe for guidance on “how can you” make it
happen: The Divine is always your compass to lead you to your vision. In
those moments where you doubt or fear, lean on the Universe to guide you.
Ask for signs of reassurance, restate the condence you have in your vision,
claim your strength and willingness to make it happen.The Universe always
falls in love with a stubborn heart, so do not ever bend on your dreams. The
Universe will test us to see if we are willing to show up for the life we say we
want. Queens always show up, and in return, the Universe will always unlock
the gates in response.
5. Do not quit until it is manifested: Most important! Quitting is not in the
vocabulary of a true Queen. Queens know that quitting is never the answer.
Their vision is not of selsh pursuit, and in fact, if they were to quit, it would
be selsh to withhold their gis from others who would benet from it. Giving
up is not an answer, but rather a settlement for comfort and mediocracy. Keep
manifesting that vision of yours until you get it!
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In the box below, create a vision board. Create a mosaic of words,
images, phrases, places, people, vibes, etc. that give you a visual of your
vision. Put your vision board in a place where you can see it daily!
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HAPPY MANIFESTATION!!
Thank you for joining me for Module 6! Becoming clear, focused, and certain
about your dreams is a moment to celebrate because the next step is receiving it.
Put in the work, reframe your mindset, show up for your vision and watch it birth
into your life, piece by piece!
In this module, we covered…
The dierence between “want” and “must”
Living by our fear-based wants vs. knowing that we can with certainty
Formulating new mantras/mottos to replace the old
Making decisions and “cutting o” backup plans
How to manifest dreams with certainty
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MODULE 7
BEING THE QUEEN OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
Every Queen deserves to create (and be supported by) the relationships of her
desires.
STEP 1: KNOW & LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
In order to call in the relationship you desire, you must rst cultivate those same
standards within your relationship with yourself. Loving yourself is the root of
your self-esteem, the baseline of your expectations, and the ultimate strength to
nd all you need. Your ideal relationship should not be intended to ll these voids
for you, but rather to complement and elevate them.
Seeing ourselves, being there for ourselves and loving ourselves is the
first step.
While you listen to the video, please ll out the prompts below. I suggest you
bring your romantic relationship that you have (or desire to call in!) to mind.
In order for another person to live up to your relationship desires and
expectations, you must be crystal clear on what those look like, rst.
What’s the vision for your ideal relationship?
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What does it look like?
How do you desire to be treated?
How do the two of you spend quality time?
What is the relationship dynamic?
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What is most important to you?
What are your relationship non-negotiables?
How do I want to show up in my own life? How do I want my partner to
show up?
What qualities are most important to you for your partner and
partnership?
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STEP 2: ASSESS YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP
Like I shared in the video, I started with the “Princess-mentality” and went aer
nothing but local loser rockstars. So let’s pause and take inventory about who
you’ve been and who it’s been calling in:
In my relationship (or pursuit of).....
I’VE BEEN THE
(CHECK WHAT APPLIES)
I’VE CALLED IN THE
(CHECK WHAT APPLIES)
PRINCESS
GHOST
BITCH
DIVA
MARTYR
SABOTEUR
PARANOID GANGSTER
LITTLE MISS PERFECT
QUEEN
PRINCE
JESTER
ROCKSTAR
JOKER
JERK
WORKAHOLIC
GRUMP
NARCISSIST
KING
STEP 3: MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP A PRIORITY!
In moving toward you stepping up as a Queen in your relationship and
empowering your man to be the King, what action steps will you be taking:
1.
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6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
You have the power to create any relationship dynamic you desire!
And if you’ve lost your confidence in this area, let’s restore your faith!
Create a few mantras below based off of your new romantic life.
1.
2.
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4.
5.
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Time to raise our standards, our consciousness and recreate our relationships to
have the thriving, alive and ever-growing dynamic!
ROYAL ROMANCE!
Thank you for joining me in this powerful week about fullling our Divine right to
be love and receive love. Allowing love to ow eortlessly through us, tuning
into our intuition, and raising the standard on how we deserve to be treated
is the most royal way to live our life as Queen. Calling in our King doesn’t have
to be anything more than our truest act of self-love and Divine guidance.
In this module, we covered…
What we desire in a romantic relationship and what our vision and non-
negotiables are
Loving ourselves enough to know that we deserve a romantic love that will
enhance those qualities
Dening where our current/past relationships stand/stood. How do/did we
show up in those relationships? What do/did we receive in return?
Actions we will make going forward to call in a love we desire
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MODULE 8
YOUR NEW
QUEEN-CONSCIOUSNESS
Queens need to live by their own “rulebooks” in order to pursue, call-in, and
receive their greatest desires.
STEP 1: OTHER’S EXPECTATIONS VS. OUR DESIRES
As you heard in my story, there’s a vast dierence between being logical and
denying our truest desires. We never know where the Universe is looking to
grant us everything we asked for, especially if we never take the chance of going
to where we desire. Society, family, and friends hold us to certain expectations,
that are oen dull and strict, playing by the same “rulebook” as everyone else.
But as Queen, we don’t want a life that looks like “everyone else’s,” we
want to thrive, in the most beautiful and genuine ways that align with our
vision. When you feel these pressures, this is when the Queen in you needs to
hold strong, adjust her crown, seek Divine guidance, and jump in fearlessly...
the Universe will meet you there! Just like it did for me when I traveled solo and
landed my rst “LA-based” client.
Below, write out your desires, what other people expect from you, how
you will proceed with Divine guidance, and the outcome you intend to
receive/manifest from doing so.
MY DESIRES
OTHER’S
EXPECTATIONS
MY DIVINE
ACTION STEPS
TOWARDS MY
DESIRES
INTENDED
OUTCOME
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STEP 2: BENDING TIME AND SPACE
The only way you can do what I like to call “bend time and space” is by living
according to your own femininity and value system. Aer all, this is your life and
only you know what your intuition is calling you to do. No one else holds the
answers that you do. It’s a powerful realization to know that we own this key and
can unlock Divine support along the way, pointing us on our path.
When was a time that you denied what was expected of you and
carried on with what you felt intuitively guided to do?
What Divine signs were granted to you along the way to support you
and your decision?
What showed up for you as a result of taking that chance?
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STEP 3: GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO RECEIVE
What happens when we don’t allow ourselves the permission to receive? We
block our blessings. It’s impossible to manifest our desires if we don’t believe
we deserve them. Queen, life gets good when you give yourself permission to
have what you desire. The moment you can drop the fear of expectations and
recognize that things are happening for you, not to you, manifesting can
happen and alignment will unveil. It’s an eortless reciprocation when you get
great at receiving!
Every day as part of your spiritual workout, add in these two pieces to activate
your Queen energy.
Ask yourself this question: “How good am I willing to let life get?
Repeat this mantra: “I am worthy of receiving.
ENJOY YOUR NEW QUEEN-CONSCIOUSNESS!
Thank you for joining me in this nal module, embracing your Queen-
consciousness! Once we allow things to eortlessly ow towards us, when we
let go of outside expectations and fears, we can truly allow our lives to expand in
the way that feels pleasurable to us and allows us to best serve others. When we
release the blockages we’ve put in place to prevent these blessings, we can see
how truly supported we really are and how all is working to guide us to what we
desire.
In this module, we covered…
What our truest desires are and what outside expectations are currently
blocking those desires.
Action steps we can take to overcome those fears and expectations
Recognizing that our feminine power isn’t practical, linear, and in line with
predictable guidelines
How to allow ourselves to receive and feeling worthy enough to receive
The understanding that things are happening for us not to us
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WELCOME TO
QUEENDOM
Queens, I am honored
that you chose to join
me in this eight-part,
intensive assessment
of how dazzling life
can be! Not only did
you choose to join me,
but you chose yourself
and your vision. You
put in the work, you
dove in deep, you
discovered what was
holding you back, and
how to overcome those
fears. You showed up, every single day, to call in the life you not only deserve but
that you desire!
Thank you for living the epic life and showing others what is possible. When
we lead the way as Queen, others watch and wonder how we do it. Now, we can
use our new-found freedom to serve others in living their beautifully epic lives,
too. Queens lead by example and encompass the compassion to bring out that
desire in others.
I am so proud of you for having the audacity to be Queen. There is no better
time. And time is of the essence. I cannot wait to hear what ceilings you shatter,
what love and luxury you manifest, and how you continue to strengthen your
relationship with Spirit.
With love always,
Gina DeVee
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